Address:SocialCatfish, LLC39252 Winchester Rd. Photos larger than 8Mb will be reduced. MrBallen you have covered a few West Virginia . Online messages recovered between the lying pair revealed that the relationship had become dangerously obsessive for Montgomery who said it 'became more real to me than real life'. Thomass wife sent Jessi a picture of her family revealing his real age to his teen love interest. 2. She goes and gets her teen daughter`s underwear and mails it to this guy she thinks is a teen himself. She married Milton Snidow Shieler on 2 April 1902, in Nicholas, West Virginia, United States. Please contact Find a Grave at [emailprotected] if you need help resetting your password. Are you sure that you want to delete this photo? Montgomery pleaded guilty to Barrett's murder and was sentenced to 20-years. Sonya in Florida. You know, there`s something else, too, about this woman that was not charged. TALHOTBLONDBIG50: I know. I don`t know if you`ve heard these or not, but remember, this is a 45- year-old part-time secretary posing as her teen daughter. ", Montgomery said Jessi was horrified, and broke off the relationship immediately. Why don`t you try being an adult now, and you tell me why! They each think that they`re communicating with a hot teen on the other end. GRACE: Thank you. Linkedin. GRACE: Well, you`re leaving out the guy that pulled the trigger. Little did he know that a hello from an attractive 18-year old would destroy his life, expose two catfish, and lead him to become a murderer all under the guise of love. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "Please don`t say that. All photos appear on this tab and here you can update the sort order of photos on memorials you manage. PHILLIPS: Absolutely, the thought -- freaks is the exact right word, Nancy. But when police arrived at her home, they were in for another surprise: A woman named Mary Shieler opened the door. We used to call it "starting stuff." Valley Springs, CA. He admitted -- GRACE: To top it all off? To explore more of Mary Shieler's online presence, click here. As time went on, Thomas began to feel as if his online relationship with tallhotblond was more real than his real life. He was a 22-year-old, big, strong, happy, young man. To use this feature, use a newer browser. We collect and match historical records that Ancestry users have contributed to their family trees to create each persons profile. And for two years, they carry on about having sex and being nude and the magic, blah, blah, never knowing that each other is lying? So this girl restored his virility. 'He was my height, six-feet tall, had bright red hair,' said Montgomery to ABC News. Why not a conspiracy charge? Which memorial do you think is a duplicate of Mary Neal (154492995)? What damage would that have done? TALHOTBLONDBIG50: You`re wrong. CUYAHOGA FALLS, OHIO - Mary Yvonne Shieler, 69, formerly of Fayetteville, WV went home to be with the Lord on Monday, June 27, 2016 in Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "What do you want, Tom? Before long, Jessi was sending Brian her photos and the two had become a cyberitem. It started innocently enough. The man in the center is Tommy, my husband." UNIDENTIFIED MALE: Don`t go creeping up on me like that, Carol. ELEANOR ODOM: I think so, Nancy. So how does it unfold? BARRETT: Well, we were gone for the weekend. Mary Shieler, on the other hand, did not go to prison; there were no laws on the books that would come with consequences for her actions. She knew that she PETER ODOM: She had to know it. Prosecutors in New York desperately searched for a reason to charge Mary Shieler, but ultimately, could find no law she had broken. GREAT NEWS! We verify information to confirm if the person that you've met online is really who they say they are. Save to an Ancestry Tree, a virtual cemetery, your clipboard for pasting or Print. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "Where are you going?" Was there any way to have saved the victim in this case, Brian Barrett? Montgomery knew he was in way over his head, but he couldn't bring himself to end things with her. Same thing with the woman in West Virginia. Research genealogy for Mary Yvonne Shieler of Fayetteville, Rt2, Fayette, West Virginia, as well as other members of the Shieler family, on Ancestry. It was later discovered that Shieler had flirted online, as 'Jessi', with other men too, and once pointed a videocamera up her unaware daughter's skirt for a video she sent to several men with the question, 'guys, do you like it? GRACE: Yes. And then she starts to aggressively pursue this young man. How to Find Out if Someone Has a Dating Profile: Is Your Significant Other Cheating On You? My heart aches to hear you call me your Tommy. I will on Saturday." Over the following year, they talked about love and even marriage while engaging in digital sex. What is that? Unfortunately the Internet is a place where people can hide their real names and identities and lives, and live in a fantasy world, which can have terrible consequences, as seen in this case. Failed to delete memorial. Discover your family history in millions of family trees and more than a billion birth,marriage, death, census, and miltary records. You may request to transfer up to 250,000 memorials managed by Find a Grave. SCHROEDER: Well, I mean, bottom line, the guy who pulled the trigger is Thomas Montgomery. But for Jessi, he invented a younger, stronger, more virile version of himself, called "Tommy." What is Mary Shieler's from Oak Hill, West Virginia famous for? She broke things off with Thomas. Make sure that the file is a photo. SCHROEDER: Yes, he admitted to my producer that he was impotent. That`s Tallhotblond. As the messages he sent to 'Jessi' became increasingly unhinged, Montgomery was embarrassed online by Barrett and Shieler as they posted his real age and picture onto forums, making him out to be a pedophile. Jessi had no knowledge of her mother's cyber-life. Mary B Shieler, age 61 (304) 661-**** Let`s listen to what these two are texting and writing and saying to each other on phone conversations. She said that she was an 18 year old high school senior that had been engaged in an online relationship with a man that Brian worked with by the name of Thomas Montgomery. "He was my height, 6 feet tall, had bright red hair," said Montgomery, "big shoulders, muscles and all that. You`re going to blow a gasket, Jean Casarez. If you have questions, please contact [emailprotected]. Do not sell or share my personal information. "That it would end, fall off and that would be the end of it. As police questioned her, she revealed a shocking truth: She was the one who had been sending messages to Montgomery and Barrett under the handle Talhotblond. She flirted online with Barrett, who called himself 'beefcake', on open forums for Montgomery to see. It`s not true." A blurred picture of Jessi Shieler, the 18-year-old daughter of Mary Shieler, who used it under the online name Tallhotblonde. GRACE: OK. That`s what an avatar is, like your little mascot, right? Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group, Legendary talk show host Jerry Springer, 79, passes away 'peacefully' at his Chicago home months after cancer diagnosis, Iran's Revolutionary Guard seizes US-bound oil tanker 'Advantage Sweet' in international waters in Gulf of Oman, Jada Pinkett Smith's show Red Table Talk is CANCELED by Meta, Praising J.K. 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I remember a girl displaying a picture that was dated. A blurred picture of Jessi Shiebler which her mother Mary sent to Thomas Montgomery when she was flirting online with him. I always tell the truth. And was there any way that Montgomery could have gotten a lesser charge since, obviously, he snapped? I got caught up in it. They turn to these chat rooms to try to live up to a different persona. This database contains family trees submitted to Ancestry by users who have indicated that their tree can only be viewed by Ancestry members to whom they have granted permission to see their tree.These trees can change over time as users edit, remove, or otherwise modify the data in their trees. Despite doing this, tallhotblond would (still) sometimes message Thomas. Tallhotblond, told Brian that Thomas A.K.A. So the person that they were looking for wasn't Jessi. A West Virginia senior in high school, a softball player -- she calls herself Tallhotblond on line -- takes to the Internet. "I kept thinking, well, we're never going to meet. Well, as you mentioned in your opening, you`re dealing with a portly, dim-witted, bald man who is living an essentially pathetic life. She wants the sex. Montgomery was in a teen chat room and his profile reveals his real age. Photos she sent Montgomery were of her daughter. Kimberly R Shieler, Denise N Shielerhaski, Steven Bradley Shieler, Rodney Laurence Shieler and Desiree Nadine Shieler are some of Mary relatives. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: How would I know? Jessi texted him at the last minute not to visit, but Montgomery, who had learned of the plan to meet, was incensed. And it's, it's kind of frightening.". UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "What does Brian have to do with this?" . What`s a private chat, Barbara Schroeder? 3 Apr 1947 - Fayetteville, Rt2, Fayette, West Virginia, 27 Jun 2016 - Cuyahoga Falls, Summit County, Ohio, United States of America. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "What you two talked about." She also used photographs of her daughter working as a lifeguard, so she could share bathing suit photos with Thomas and incite his lust. SCHROEDER: Yes, you play blackjack, you play a bunch of different games, you play diamond (INAUDIBLE), you know, a lot of fun games in there, specific teen rooms and there are also adult rooms. And that legally is important, right, because he is using the brain and there is an intention there to continue this conversation. Montgomery seemed to be losing touch with reality. And this is what they`re saying to each other before it all blows up in murder. Mary E Shieler Neal Birth 31 Mar 1924. I think there is a documentary and also a Lifetime movie. Police captain Ron Kenyon later said that their first concern was to find out if Jessi was still alive. Number one, sometimes these people are so obsessed with their activities they themselves save those chat room to logs that people -- police can recover. [ad code=2 align=center] Mary used her daughter's online identity to seduce two men online, both of whom worked at the same factory outside Buffalo New York. That`s what they are. A Patent Pending People Search Process. Why they`re not looking at her GRACE: She knew that they PETER ODOM: is just amazing to me. By all accounts, Mary Shieler was a perfect mother, who loved and spoiled her teenage daughter Jessi. Doctors are prescribing stimulants alongside anti-depressants to counter sluggishness, research shows, Golf star Patrick Reed's $450,000 Porsche is spotted smashed up on a salvage website with just 360 miles on the clock, Awkward moment The View co-hosts display giant naked picture of actor Josh Brolin while talking to his legendary actor father James on the show, Flaunting it! We've discovered several social media accounts associated with Mary Shieler, including @shiler_aryo, @mariel_sheler34sl, @mariosieler, @marcellas.zauberkueche and others. They`re out there -- GRACE: That doesn`t mean it`s right. As police responded to the murder, they quickly uncovered the internet love-triangle and when they couldn't find Montgomery, rushed to 'Jessi'. He attended. He must be -- and the "Lifetime" movie portrays that extremely well. ", Instant messages recovered from his computer show that the online relationship began to consume Montgomery. This is the photo he used on line. CLEMENTS: When we were prosecutors in Fulton County, Nancy, we had often cases where, you know, somebody got killed because someone else started. While we do pride ourselves on our thoroughness, the information available on our website or that we provide at times may not be 100% accurate, complete, or up to date, so do not use it as a substitute for your own due diligence, especially if you have concerns about a person's criminal history. (END VIDEO CLIP) GRACE: You`re seeing part of a "Lifetime" original movie called "Talhotblond" and they get that name, Talhotblond, from a moniker that a 45-year-old mother, part-time secretary picks to go online posing as that girl, her daughter. So I`m a little bit shocked that she wasn`t charged with those crimes. UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "You might get the magic." I'd love to get together.'". Select boxes below to reduce the number of results. It`s Barbara Schroeder. The family budget was tight, but Jessi was going to two proms, her own, and her boyfriend's. SCHROEDER: Sadly, after he -- after he killed Brian. Joining me out of L.A. who produced the film on this case, including an interview with the alleged killer. "And on his way back, he was saying, 'I'm going right past your house. Let me -- GRACE: Miss Schroeder -- SCHROEDER: Can I disagree? We are taking your calls. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I feel -- it just didn`t turn out. Together, Brian and Jessi bean to expose Thomas in the chatrooms they had used together. What is Mary Shieler's from Oak Hill, West Virginia Facebook? UNIDENTIFIED MALE: "You made it perfectly clear what you want by your talk with Brian." Your new password must contain one or more uppercase and lowercase letters, and one or more numbers or special characters. CASAREZ: Good question. ELEANOR ODOM, PROSECUTOR: Yes, Nancy. Ron Kenyon told "20/20," "our first concern was talking to Jessi and making sure she was still alive. | GRACE: We are taking your calls. And happy birthday to North Carolina friend, Vernie, cancer survivor, four children, seven grands, one great. Prosecutors said their discovery of Montgomery's DNA on a peach pit found at the crime scene and a photo of Montgomery family's gun cabinet -- which showed the type of old military rifle that police believe was used to shoot Barrett -- were key to their case against Montgomery. However, what Jessi, whose online name was Tallhotblonde, didn't know was that her 'sweet sexy Marine' was actually a 46-year-old married father of two from Clarence, in upstate New York. Even though he was married, his dull job and sexless relationship made forbidden prospects sound enticing. And al he did was text back and forth to this 45-year-old woman posing as Tallhotblond. Remember, the Sunday school teacher, the father of two? "Unfortunately in New York State, you have to do a little something more to be criminally liable.". . UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: Hi, Nancy. But Barbara, you interviewed the killer behind -- you interviewed him. We`re not blurring his photo because guess who that is? And she`s actually a 45-year-old secretary and a mother posing as her teen daughter on line. A vengeful 'Jessi'/Mary Shieler then used the Internet to find a 22-year-old co-worker of Montgomery called Brian Barrett, setting in motion a tragic series of events which led to his murder. DANIEL BARRETT, SON MURDERED IN INTERNET LOVE TRIANGLE: Yes, we have. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: "No, it isn`t." Bronze Star, Purple Heart, a police officer. SCHROEDER: Well, and to be perfectly accurate, I actually sent in one of my friends, a guy, because I knew that Thomas Montgomery had issues with women and he had trust issues with women and he liked to lie to women. Her husband divorced her over her deception and her daughter Jessi cut ties too, moving in with relatives in Virginia, where she was attending college. But there`s just one problem. By - March 1, 2021. You know what, he -- a guys goes to talk to a young woman on the Internet, surprise, crime of the century. His father is with us live tonight -- lost his life, multiple gunshot wounds to the face, the jaw, point-blank range, over a girl neither had ever met. Please complete the captcha to let us know you are a real person.